Comments for Ask Dr. Janice http://drjanice.wordpress.com Building Your Coherent Human Infrastructure Tue, 11 Aug 2009 06:38:34 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on The Intern Diaries: Week Six by CV Parser http://drjanice.wordpress.com/2009/07/11/the-intern-diaries-week-six/#comment-283 CV Parser Tue, 11 Aug 2009 06:38:34 +0000 http://drjanice.wordpress.com/?p=313#comment-283 The above given article in the post suggests all the workers to ‘brand’ themselves to make themselves layoff-proof. The above given article in the post suggests all the workers to ‘brand’ themselves to make themselves layoff-proof.

]]> Comment on Open Letter to President-elect Obama by the notsobigguy http://drjanice.wordpress.com/2008/11/18/open-letter-to-president-elect-obama/#comment-245 the notsobigguy Tue, 30 Jun 2009 23:21:31 +0000 http://drjanice.wordpress.com/?p=151#comment-245 And don't forget, you've got the bomb. And don’t forget, you’ve got the bomb.

]]> Comment on Love in the Time of Economic Indicators by Dr. Janice Presser http://drjanice.wordpress.com/2009/05/20/love-in-the-time-of-economic-indicators/#comment-229 Dr. Janice Presser Mon, 25 May 2009 00:34:45 +0000 http://drjanice.wordpress.com/?p=265#comment-229 Freud defined mental health as the ability to love and to work. That was before multitasking, of course. And you know he had that thing going with his sister in law, besides the cocaine. Seems to me that if you have a lot of stress at work and no team to turn it into great things, you are probably too exhausted for love. Same thing with a stressful, unsupportive relationship in that the tension interferes with your professional life. Stop telling yourself what you *should* do and just get out there and enjoy people. Love will probably surprise you while you're doing your best to just be you. (For those of you who are curious, Dr. Janice has been happily married to Barry for almost 27 years.) Freud defined mental health as the ability to love and to work. That was before multitasking, of course. And you know he had that thing going with his sister in law, besides the cocaine.
Seems to me that if you have a lot of stress at work and no team to turn it into great things, you are probably too exhausted for love. Same thing with a stressful, unsupportive relationship in that the tension interferes with your professional life.
Stop telling yourself what you *should* do and just get out there and enjoy people. Love will probably surprise you while you’re doing your best to just be you.
(For those of you who are curious, Dr. Janice has been happily married to Barry for almost 27 years.)

]]> Comment on Love in the Time of Economic Indicators by andi babian http://drjanice.wordpress.com/2009/05/20/love-in-the-time-of-economic-indicators/#comment-228 andi babian Sun, 24 May 2009 23:50:29 +0000 http://drjanice.wordpress.com/?p=265#comment-228 That's interesting. I've been thinking I should "look for love" while I'm looking for a job now. Part of that is that I'm considering relocating, which opens up a lot of possibilities in both areas. And my experience has definitely been that when working, I have no luck. My best times have been when I'm not working so much. That’s interesting. I’ve been thinking I should “look for love” while I’m looking for a job now. Part of that is that I’m considering relocating, which opens up a lot of possibilities in both areas.

And my experience has definitely been that when working, I have no luck. My best times have been when I’m not working so much.

]]> Comment on Love in the Time of Economic Indicators by Kevin WIlliams http://drjanice.wordpress.com/2009/05/20/love-in-the-time-of-economic-indicators/#comment-227 Kevin WIlliams Thu, 21 May 2009 15:05:48 +0000 http://drjanice.wordpress.com/?p=265#comment-227 A great story. Does this mean its OK to love more than one person? when that person is someone you love to work with? If that is so, then I live the life of a mormon. Never had as many love affairs before now. A great story. Does this mean its OK to love more than one person? when that person is someone you love to work with?

If that is so, then I live the life of a mormon. Never had as many love affairs before now.

]]> Comment on The Negotiation of Time and Space by Mark Talaba http://drjanice.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/negotiation-of-time-and-space/#comment-223 Mark Talaba Thu, 14 May 2009 02:59:41 +0000 http://drjanice.wordpress.com/?p=261#comment-223 I was there, too, and Dr. Janice does not exaggerate. Lots of other people would agree about Steve's music, and if you'd like to find out why, I recommend his CD 'Selections from Jekyll & Hyde'. A longtime fave of mine; 4 1/2 stars on Amazon.com. I was there, too, and Dr. Janice does not exaggerate.

Lots of other people would agree about Steve’s music, and if you’d like to find out why, I recommend his CD ‘Selections from Jekyll & Hyde’. A longtime fave of mine; 4 1/2 stars on Amazon.com.

]]> Comment on ABC’s for First-Time Entrepreneurs by drjanice http://drjanice.wordpress.com/2009/05/05/abcs-for-first-time-entrepreneurs/#comment-222 drjanice Fri, 08 May 2009 12:53:51 +0000 http://drjanice.wordpress.com/?p=254#comment-222 Amber, this is a wonderful question for which I have no real answer. It is our failing as the older generation that we have led the younger generation to believe that we have all the answers. In fact, there are questions that haven't been asked yet, and so the answers may not exist yet. This is your world to explore - the answers are someplace. I've come to see our job as that of holding the candles that light your way and then handing those candles over so you can go farther than we were able to. Often, there is more to be learned from the questions than from the answers. In learning to ask the right ones, you truly gain from your education. Amber, this is a wonderful question for which I have no real answer. It is our failing as the older generation that we have led the younger generation to believe that we have all the answers. In fact, there are questions that haven’t been asked yet, and so the answers may not exist yet. This is your world to explore – the answers are someplace.

I’ve come to see our job as that of holding the candles that light your way and then handing those candles over so you can go farther than we were able to.

Often, there is more to be learned from the questions than from the answers. In learning to ask the right ones, you truly gain from your education.

]]> Comment on ABC’s for First-Time Entrepreneurs by Amber Aureden http://drjanice.wordpress.com/2009/05/05/abcs-for-first-time-entrepreneurs/#comment-220 Amber Aureden Wed, 06 May 2009 14:54:36 +0000 http://drjanice.wordpress.com/?p=254#comment-220 I'm HERE!! (Actually I'm still studying in France finishing my Spring semester, but I'll be back in Philly next week!) I'm a young WOMAN ENTREPRENEUR studying at Temple - and I'm extremely disappointed that I was not be able to come to the discussion today. I've got "A" and "C" down...but I'm doing the best I can with "B" - where does an entrepreneur go for mentoring or advice when there's no one able to teach you (at least locally) what you want to learn? It gets expensive to travel and get training elsewhere especially when you're already paying your way through college. I’m HERE!! (Actually I’m still studying in France finishing my Spring semester, but I’ll be back in Philly next week!) I’m a young WOMAN ENTREPRENEUR studying at Temple – and I’m extremely disappointed that I was not be able to come to the discussion today. I’ve got “A” and “C” down…but I’m doing the best I can with “B” – where does an entrepreneur go for mentoring or advice when there’s no one able to teach you (at least locally) what you want to learn? It gets expensive to travel and get training elsewhere especially when you’re already paying your way through college.

]]> Comment on Coherent Conductors, Crabby Culture by drjanice http://drjanice.wordpress.com/2009/05/03/coherent-conductors-crabby-culture/#comment-218 drjanice Mon, 04 May 2009 19:26:33 +0000 http://drjanice.wordpress.com/?p=249#comment-218 You may not be crabby Stephen, but I bet you are coherent! You may not be crabby Stephen, but I bet you are coherent!

]]> Comment on Coherent Conductors, Crabby Culture by Stephen Robert Morse http://drjanice.wordpress.com/2009/05/03/coherent-conductors-crabby-culture/#comment-217 Stephen Robert Morse Mon, 04 May 2009 19:06:57 +0000 http://drjanice.wordpress.com/?p=249#comment-217 "a gem" - love it! best, stephen (not crabby) “a gem” – love it!

best,

stephen (not crabby)

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